Jesus teach us to pray...

Intro:

1. Prayer is a large subject and yet simple. Prayer defined would be communication between man and God. When we read the Bible that is when God speaks to us and when we pray that is when we speak to God. Prayer is one of the most valuable gifts God has given man. The Gospel is the power to save and change the lives of men, women and children. Prayer is the power to change the mind of God. Dan Gilbret has said that prayer moves the hand that moves the universe.

2. Some may ask why should I pray? God knows everything he even knows what I am thinking? Well this may be true that God knows everything, but He wants us to pray so that we can create a desire and dependence on Him for the things we want in this life. Prayer is extremely important in the lives of Christians.

3. Christians that do not pray are like fish that do not swim, or like humans that do not breathe. Prayer is that important. As Christians we can not survive without it. It is through prayer that we are able to ask God to forgive us of our wrongs, it is through prayer that we are able to ask God to provide our food, or help in anything. Prayer is expressing our hearts desire to God. Prayer should by used in our everyday life if we are following Jesus.

I. Why Pray?

A. Jesus Set The Example

1. After being baptized Jesus prayed (Luke 3:21)

2. Before selecting the 12 Apostles Jesus prayed all night (Luke 6:12)

a. The example is when facing a very big decision Jesus prayed all night

b. The 12 Apostles he was about to chose would be the ones who established Jesus’ Church after he had been resurrected and was seated at the right hand of God.

c. These 12 would be some of the most influential and important men of all time

d. Jesus prayed all night before making the extremely difficult decision on the 12 Apostles

e. How much should we pray when facing difficult decisions? You can never pray too much about extremely important issues.

3. Jesus spent time alone with His Heavenly Father in prayer (Mat 14:23)

a. If we never spend time in prayer with our Heavenly Father we will not grow closer to Him.

b. Jesus had been busy teaching all of those people and then he took some alone time for himself so He could “talk” to God.

c. A regular private devotion with God everyday will bring us to a closer relationship with our Heavenly Father.

d. Devotional should include at least one of the following: singing to God, reading His Word (the Bible), and praying.

4. Jesus because of all the people following Him rose up early before anyone else and went off by himself and prayed (Mark 1:35)

a. Jesus sacrificed some of his sleep in order to draw closer to God.

b. Jesus must have considered being alone with God an Important part of His life

c. How much should we consider praying to our Father in Heaven important?

B. The Disciples Prayed Much

1. The Apostles taught Christians they should pray

a. After the church was established in Acts chapter 2, the disciples or followers of Jesus continued in the Apostles teaching which included prayer (Acts 2:41-42)

b. It has been said that there was nothing that the early Christians did not pray about

c. If it is important to you then it will be important to our Heavenly Father

d. God wants us to be happy but He will not hear us unless we are following Him or obeying Him.

2. The Different Churches were told to pray

a. The Church at Rome (Rom 12:12)

b. The Church at Corinth (1 Cor 7:5)

c. The Church at Ephesus (Eph 6:18)

d. The Church at Thessonalica (1 Thes 5:17-18)

e. These are only a few examples

II. Conditions of Answered Prayer

A. God always hears prayer

1. He always gives us an answer

a. Could be a no

b. Could be a yes

c. Could be later

d. You are not ready for this blessing right now.

2. He hears his children’s prayers

a. Be righteous: “The eyes of the Lord are upon the righteous and His ears are open to their prayers” (1 Pet 3:12), so we must be righteous in God’s eyes in order to have our prayers answered. Being in Christ makes us so. If you walk with Jesus according to His word then you are said to be righteous or justified. Another way to say it is “just-as-if-I’d- not sinned.

b. Your mom and dad will hear you because you are one of their children. The same is true with God. He knows those that are His and He listens to them so He can take care of them and bless them.

B. How do you get God to answer your prayer?

1. Be obedient children: “and whatsoever we ask we receive of him because we keep his commandments and do the things that are pleasing in His sight” (1 John 3:22). If we are doing what God wants us to do then He is more willing to answer our prayers.

a. It is like your dad our mom, if you have been bad or been misbehaving and you ask you mom or dad to go skating then you know they will say no. However if you have been good and done what they asked you to do, then you know they will carry you.

2. Ask in faith: “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.(Jam 1:5-8)

a. If we ask something from God and do not believe that He will give it to us do you think He will? We are to ask in faith.

b. Faith can be defined as a strong conviction. If we truly know that God is good and He wants to make us happy then that conviction will cause us to believe that He will give us what we ask from Him.

c. Heb 11:6 “But without faith it is impossible to please God, he that comes to God must believe that He exists and He is a rewarder of those that diligently seek Him.”

d. If you do not believe that God is real then it will be impossible to receive anything from Him.

3. Have the Right Motives: “Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war; yet ye have not, because ye ask not. Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. (Jam 4:2-3)

a. You do not have because you do not ask. If you never pray to God for things in your life then He will never give you the desires of your heart.

b. However if you are asking for stuff that you want that has no purpose whatsoever then He is not likely to give it to you.

c. In a conversation with man God is asked, “God how long is a million years to you?” He answers, “It is like 1 second’. The man then asks, “How much is a million dollars to you?” God answers, “It is like 1 penny.” The man then asks, “Well God can I have a penny?” God answers, “In just one second”.

d. God may not give you a million dollars so you can be rich, but if you asked for a million dollars to build a homeless shelter them He would have reason to give it to you.

4. Pray in Jesus’ Name

a. Jesus said, “And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it. If ye love me, keep my commandments. (John 14:13-15)

b. What does it mean to ask something in Jesus name?

c. If I was a policeman and I said stop in the name of the Law, then I would be saying stop because the law gives me the authority to make you stop. So in the same way to say in the name of Jesus, is another way of saying according to Jesus and His will or authority.

d. We can not pray in the name of men and please God; Jesus was not a man? He was and is God.

III. How do we pray in a way that pleases God? (Mat 6:5-15)

A. To be seen of men (Mat 6:5-8)

1. Not like a hypocrite (Mat 6:5)

a. The word for hypocrite gets its meaning from actors that put on a face or mask. It is to be someone who pretends to be something else. To act like a Christian, instead of being a Christian.

b. Standing in the street corners: The Jews Jesus was calling hypocrites were required to pray at certain times of the day. It was easy for then to be found at a busy street corner when it was time to pray. By doing so they could be heard by all those who were passing by.

c. Standing in the synagogues: Those religious leaders would also be sure to be in, or at the “church building” at these times so they could impress those that heard them pray to God.

d. They have their reward: Instead of praying to God, they were praying so they could impress the people that heard them. By doing so, Jesus said that is their reward. They get a reward by those that heard them saying man that guy sure knows how to pray, instead having the prayer heard and answered by God.

2. The Father sees in secret (Mat 6:6)

a. Enter into your closet: It was a custom for the Jewish people to have an upper room in which they could pray. Sometimes these rooms would be roofs, inner rooms, but usually was an upper room. It was a place where they could be alone with God and pray to Him alone. If you are in your bedroom alone and you pray to God, then whom are you trying to impress? God is the only one any of us should try to impress.

b. He will reward you openly: The hypocrites prayed outwardly so they could be heard and impress people. Jesus wants us to pray to God inwardly and impress Him. By praying only to God so He can hear our hearts desires then He will give us those things we ask for. By answering our prayers we are rewarded for all to see how God has blessed us.

3. Do not use vain repetitions.(Mat 6:7)

a. Vain repetitions: another word for vain is empty. The heathen are those who do not know God. In Jesus time they were people who would worship idols or man made objects. They would repeat their desires over and over again in order that their false god may hear what they were asking.

b. It could be like a poem. Sometimes a poem expresses a thought then repeats it another way in the following lines over and over only re-wording the theme. By repeating themselves over and over again they thought that they would be heard better by their false gods.

4. Your Father knows what you need before you ask (Mat 6:8)

a. Those that were heathens were praying to gods that were not real. Jesus draws a picture that is different for our God. Our God is so great that before we even ask He knows what we need. We do not need to repeat ourselves in our prayer to God. Our God is not deaf He knows what we need before we ask.

b. Why do we need to ask then? So we can create a dependence, desire, and faith in God for providing us with the things we need and want.

B. The Model Prayer (Mat 6:9-15)

1. The Benediction (Mat 6:9)

a. Our Father: Signifies a close relationship to all those that are praying with the one leading the prayer. Those that were hypocrites would cast insults to those that were not as pious or good as themselves. It also gives the idea of a family and not that of separation.

b. Which art in Heaven: Instead of being as one of the false gods, He was the one true God that created the Heavens as His dwelling place…Who lives there where we want to be one day.

c. Hallowed by thy name: Hallow means Holy, as in Holy is your name. Holy is a word that is used to separate the common things from the things of God. He is saying Your name and person is set apart in out hearts as Holy; or as above all other things. Your ways are higher and better than our ways.

2. Submission (Mat 6:10)

a. Thy kingdom come: Your kingdom is our desire. We want you to reign over all the earth and in our hearts and minds. Let all those who do not know you come to know in the same ways we know you as our God and King.

b. Thy will be done: You are the Creator of all that is and will be, You are the all-powerful. All knowing, all present God. Whatever you say may it be done in us and in the world that does not recognize you as their God and King.

c. In earth and in Heaven: In Heaven only those that love God are there. If we love God then we will keep His commandments (John 14:15). So all those in Heaven are seeking to please God. However we have been given free choice as humans to love and obey God or to reject and hate Him. So we are to pray that even as God’s will is carried out by those who dwell in Heaven may it be carried out by all that dwell in the earth below Heaven.

3. Necessities (Mat 6:11)

a. Give us our daily bread: By praying for the provision of food daily, we are taught a dependence on God for our life. This daily food helps keep us healthy and able to do God’s will. It could also be our spiritual food so we can grow in Christ as well as our physical food.

4. Forgive us as we have forgiven others (Mat 6:12)

a. God’s will is supreme and when we break His law it is far worse than hurting our friends’ feelings. So if we can not forgive our fellow man of these small things, then why would God forgive us of our sins against Him? Everyday each of us has to ask for forgiveness of something. None of us is perfect and anyone that says he has not sinned is a liar.

b. It took me a long time to figure out that being a Christian was not about being perfect. No matter how hard I tried, I always messed up somehow and I would beat myself up each time I did sin. Until one day I heard someone say that Christianity is not about being perfect but is about being faithful. No one can be perfect, but let each of us ask God to forgive us so that we can try to do better each time we sin.

5. Lead us not into temptation

a. God knows everything, and He can prevent certain circumstances from happening to keep us from being tempted. He has promised that “he will not tempt us above that which we are able and with the temptation will make a way of escape” 1 Cor 10:13. How many times though do you and I look for the door that leads away from the temptation?

b. He can allow circumstances to happen to build our characters, but it will not allow circumstances that are to great for us. Jesus was saying we should pray to be lead away from such temptations that could make us fall away from God.

6. Deliver us from evil

a. There are two types of evil. One is the devil and his angels a spiritual evil. The devil can cause us many heartaches and pains by being around us. The other type of evil would be calamities or physical evil caused by the devil. Things like earthquakes, tornadoes, house burning down, circumstances that would make our lives hard to live. He was saying to deliver us from the devil and all that could cause us harm.

7. Doxology (Mat 6:13)

a. For yours is the kingdom: No matter what men may do here on earth, your kingdom is still the greatest and the best. Everything belongs to You and Your sovereignty.

b. Thine is the power: Submitting to the power of God. God is all-powerful. He is self-sufficient. He does not need anything other than Himself to survive but we are His dependents. We depend on Him and His power for deliverance from evil and sin and every other thing we need.

c. The Glory: God is Glory. In other words there is nothing greater than God is. We may see a fireworks display and think that is glorious, but to see God would make a fireworks display look like a handclap. God is the Glory, we look at the stars and think they are glorious when God is the one that: thought of them out of nothing, made them, weighed them, placed them in there places, and set a time for them to last.

C. Forgive or forget about being forgiven (Mat 6:14-15)

1. Forgiveness is required to be forgiven

a. If we are willing to forgive our fellow man the things he may have done us wrong in, then God will be willing to forgive us of our wrongs we have done to Him.

b. If we are intolerant of the sins or mistakes of our brothers and sisters then God will be intolerant of our mistakes and shortcomings.

c. Jesus also said, “blessed are the merciful for they shall receive mercy” Mat 5:7

Conclusion:

1. We have discussed a lot about prayer in this lesson. We know that in order to be a Christian we have to pray. Jesus taught his disciples to pray He prayed himself. His disciples taught us to pray. They even told the churches they established to pray. For a Christian prayer is a must.

2. In order to have our prayers answered we have to be one of God’s children and live like He wants us to. We must ask our prayers in faith knowing that God hears us and will do what is best for us. We must have the right motives when we pray seeking God and His will for us. We also must pray in Jesus name, meaning according to Jesus’ will or authority as God.

3. We are not to pray in order to be seen of men. Men who are asked to lead prayer in worship sometimes may fall into this trap. A quick way to check the heart is to ask one’s self, “Am I praying for prayer’s sake or am I praying for my sin and theirs?” It is out of a sincere desire that one must pray; we are not to pray in order to receive prestige, or to be patted on the back by our fellow man as a man that can pray. We are to lead God’s people in a prayer that will be heard by God and not by our fellow men.

4. We have gone through the model prayer which is so simple and complete. May we all keep the spirit of prayer alive in our lives. You can pray to God at anytime and anywhere. You can even be in a conversation and being praying to God as to what to say next. Pray is vital to the Christian. Christians can not be Christians without prayer.

Father…please hear our prayers concerning forgiveness, reconciliation and repentance…In Jesus of Nazareth’s name amen.

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Role of a child…

Introduction of a role of a child:

1. Today in this world there is an assault on the homes of Americans. It may not be just in America but also in other parts of the world. In the past I have given a lesson on the role of a father and that of a mother. In this lesson I will be speaking to the children.

2. Children are an awesome blessing to have, in fact they are the future of the world. They are the products of their moms, dads, brothers, sisters, and even society. They are the ones who are most influenced in the world today.

3. Children have to worry about all kinds of pressure that those of past generations did not have to worry about. Today by watching the invited rude guest in all of our homes, they are influenced by him to smoke, to drink, to think that premarital sex is okay, to try and fit in with their friends, and that lying is okay as long as it is for a good purpose. Do you know who this invited gust is? We call Mr. T.V.

4. The T.V. spends more time influencing our lives than anything else does in our society today. The children and teenagers of this era have to be strong enough to resist the temptations of peer pressure. They must see the love and need for God in their lives. Children today must realize they are responsible for their actions. We can not always have mommy or daddy bail us out of jam. All of this is brought about by being disciplined…and Jesus is our example… Although He was a Son, yet He learned obedience from the things that He suffered; 9 And having been perfected, He became the Author of eternal salvation to all those who obey Him, Heb 5:8-9 AFV

I. Honor your Father and your Mother

A. A commandment for all times.

1. The Old Testament this was a command to be obeyed.

a. Ex 20:12. It was the 5th commandment given to the Jews.

2. It is repeated in the New Testament

a. Eph 6:1-3 “children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise, that it may be well with you and that you might live long on the earth.”

3. God changed many things from the Jewish religion to what Christians practice today

a. We no longer worship in the temple, we no longer have incense, we no longer kill animals to atone for sins, we no longer have tribes or the Levitical priesthood.

b. God changed what he expected from us in many things but one of the things he did not was to honor our fathers and mothers.

4. Even those that do not know God understand that this is right to do.

a. Your mom and dad have wiped your but and nose for a many a night. They have provided for you in all your life. They took care of you and nurtured you, as you needed it.

b. It is only reasonable that when they are feeble and can not take care of themselves, that their children should be their providers.

c. James said it this way, “Pure religion and undefiled is this to visit the widows and orphans in their afflictions, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world” James 1:27

d. God has always had a soft spot in His heart for those who are unable to take care of themselves. That is why such a great emphasis is put on taking care of widows and orphans. They are helpless.

e. We should not allow our mothers and fathers to be helpless. It is our duty to provide for them as the best that we can.

B. Wisdom of Solomon for children (Excerpt from Leroy Brownlow Christian Do’s & Don’t’s)

1. “A wise son hears his father’s words but a scoffer does not hear a rebuke” Prov 13:1

2. “A fool does not regard his father’s correction, but he that regards reproof gets prudence” Prov 15:5

3. “A wise son makes a glad father, but a foolish man despises his mother” Prov 15:20

4. “A foolish son is a grief to his father and bitterness to her that bore him” Prov 17:25

5. He that is violent towards his father and chases his mother away is a son that causes shame and brings reproach” Prov 19:26

6. Hearken unto your father that beget you and do not despise your mother when she is old” Prov 23:22.

C. How can we honor our father and our mothers?

1. We can tell them we love them. What is louder than words? Our actions. The saying I can not hear what you are saying over what you are doing rings true. James said it this way, “faith without works is dead” James 2:17

a. We can not say mom I love you and allow her to starve or be without can we?

b. One of the last thing Jesus did before he gave up his life as a ransom for all was to make provision for his mom in his absence. He was the oldest son and asked a dear friend to watch out for his mother. John 19:27

2. We also can honor them by writing to them if they are a distance away.

a. By keeping in touch a person can tell if their mom has an urgent need.

b. By staying in contact we are able to show and give affection if only through our communication and concern for their well being.

3. We can honor our moms and dads by being the type of person we should be.

a. The old saying the apple does not fall far from the tree is generally true.

b. When a person is of good moral character it reflects well on the parents of the child. Children are the fruit of their parents.

4. We can take care of their needs

a. They cared for us at least we can do is the same.

D. Blessings that happen if we honor our fathers and mothers

1. If all of us tried to please our moms and dads then the world would be a better place to live. We would all live in such a way that makes our parents proud and not ashamed.

a. The stronger the family the stronger the society and the stronger the society the stronger the nation will be. If children disrespect their parents and their parents authority then there will be no respect for what is right in that child’s life.

b. A person who has this type of attitude will develop other good attitudes. I imagine that most people who honor their moms and dads probably are good neighbor and friends. In other words they have a better sense of duty towards others.

c. Helping out someone you love is a way to make yourself feel better. The story goes, there was a man ready to give up on going to church he had about all he could stand. He goes to talk to the preacher to tell him he is going to leave and not come back. Well the wise preacher sees this coming and when he gets to his office, he asks the man “will help me run some errands? I need to carry this bag of groceries over to Jones house.” The disturbed man said, “sure” not knowing why. So they went out an ran the errand, then the preacher stopped by and helped someone else out of a jam, and by the time they had got back to the office, they had helped more than just two families. Then the preacher invited the man into his office and said, “now what was it you were wanting to talk about?” The disturbed man said, “nothing now” The man had forgotten what following Jesus was all about. It is all about love.

d. It produces long life. God gave a commandment and a promise saying that it may go well with you and have a long life.

II. Temptations Teenagers and Kids face

A. Drugs and Alcohol

1. Gal 5: 19-25

a. Notice that being drunk or drunkenness is in this list of fleshly sins.

b. Notice also that anyone who does these will not inherit the kingdom of God

2. It also applies to pot, weed, or marijuana

a. Notice carefully, that if some one does things like these also they will not inherit the kingdom of God. It was not only the drinking but also anything that is similar to being drunk.

b. It applies to anything that causes one to not be themselves. If inhibits the mind, then it is wrong. God wants us to be as he made us. You must keep a sober mind…if you get drunk and it causes you to lie…or fight…then you have gone to far. You must keep a sober mind and make sound moral decisions regardless of the drug or medicine.

3. Anything can be used for good

a. Anything can have good purposes, such as alcohol can be used to clean a wound, or disinfect your mouth. Alcohol is used in some cough syrups. If it used as medicine to help the body heal then it is okay, however if it is being abused in order to enjoy a buzz it is wrong.

b. Doctor prescribes marijuana to cancer patients because it helps them deal with chemotherapy. The medicine for chemotherapy causes extreme nausea and marijuana helps counteract these effects.

4. One of three things will happen if a person begins involving themselves with drugs.

a. You will end up in jail

b. You will end up dead

c. You will end up a junkie.

d. It all depends on time, the more times you mess with it the more likely hood the more severe will occur. The more times you do it the easier it is to do it next time.

B. Sexual Activity

1. On TV it is easily portrayed that sex is common and recommended as nature behavior among people who are not married.

a. There is a false prophet in you living room called the TV. He is telling you lies.

b. He shows programs that say it is okay to do these things it is the normal things people do. If the devil can get you to think that sin is okay then he has you beat.

2. In the same list in Gal 5, notice that fornication is one of the sins that will condemn a person

a. Fornication is defined as sex between two people who are not married, make no mistake if a person has premarital sex they will be lost.

b. Adultery is also in that list and is defined as sex between a married person and an unmarried person. This was the only grounds Jesus gave for divorce, unfaithfulness and death.

c. Regardless of what people may say about sex being natural, the fact still remains that we are to listen to our Lord above any other source of information.

3. Peer pressure to have sex

a. People tend to want to fit it with those people they consider their friends. That is called peer pressure. It is human to want to be accepted.

b. So the thing to keep in mind is who are we to be accepted by, our friends or our Lord? Which is more important? Of course that would be Jesus.

c. We need to be more concerned about what Jesus said than out friends say.

C. Becoming worldly

1. We are to be in the world but not of the world.

a. 1 John 2:15-17, “Love not the world neither the things in the world, for all that is in the world the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life is not of the father but of the world.”

b. If a teenager or child fits in with the world more than those of good moral values then they are becoming wordily. I am not saying have no contact with anyone who is not a Christian but just to safe guard your heart in such a way that you will influence them and they would not influence you.

2. We can turn our backs on God and walk away if we choose to do so.

a. In order to have love there must be free will. Love does not seek its own, therefore in order to love someone a person must be willing to sacrifice his or her desire for someone else’s.

b. That is what God wants for us even as adults. We all would do good to learn this.

c. Heb 10:26 “for if we sin willfully after we have a knowledge of the truth there remains no more sacrifice for sin” This is not oops I messed up sin it is I know it is wrong and I do not care what you think God I am going to do it anyway type of sin.

3. The cure to becoming of the world is to walk with Jesus everyday from the time you wake up to the time you go to bed.

a. You may think it odd but pretend that Jesus is right beside you one day all day long and see how many times you and Him grow closer together.

b. When you are driving down the road by yourself pretend, He is sitting in the empty car seat beside you. You will find yourself praying more often and in a more intimate way.

c. You could always ask wwjd? Or if you are pretending Jesus is beside you; you could say what would you do Lord? Or even What will we do Lord?

Conclusion:

1. So the commandment for that of children is simple. Obey your parents in all things and honor you father and mother. If the mother or father is asking things that are in conflict with Jesus then we are to obey Jesus first family second. If your mom asks you to steal you need to follow Jesus instead of your mom.

2. By honoring our parents we help make society and the world a better place. We give a good name to our parents. We can feel good about ourselves when we are taking care of those who would be helpless unless we did help. We are promised a long life if we honor them.

3. Some temptations that are being thrown at kids and teenagers these days are thing that were unheard of a few decades ago. Kids today are bombed with images, ideas, movies, etc of sex, drinking, and drug use. Some may even think that everyone is doing it when really there are only a few. I used to think that the cool kids, was where I needed to be so that I would fit in. So that I could be with the “in crowd”, but guess what I realize now, the group of cool kids was actually a small group. If there are only a few cool kids, then the majority of the kids are not doing the things the cool kids are doing. So actually the fitting in is doing what most kids are doing and hopefully that is not drinking, doing drugs, or having causal sex. No matter what group or groups you fit in with a Christian must at all cost follow Jesus and His Will.

4. Teenagers and kids are faced with a temptation to become like the world around them. They want acceptance so they will try to fit in with everyone else. To become familiar with the world is to become a stranger to God. The more you fit in with the God the less you fit in with world. It is the most important thing in the world to keep Jesus as your friend and Lord.

5. Remember… Col 3:17-25 AFV And in everything—whatever you do in word or in deed—do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by Him. 18 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as it is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord. 21 Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they be discouraged. 22 Servants, obey your fleshly masters in all things—not with eye service as pleasing men; but with singleness of heart, fearing God. 23 And whatever you do, do heartily, as to the Lord and not to men; 24 Knowing that you shall receive from the Lord the recompense of the inheritance, for you are serving Christ the Lord. 25 But the one who does wrong shall receive for the wrong he has done, and there is no respect of persons.

Father please teach us the Truth and help us raise our children right by You the Creator of all things…we renounce anything unholy and ask Your will be done in Jesus of Nazareth’s name amen.

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Do you want to know what Jesus says about being a husband…

Do you want to know what Jesus says about being a husband…

Introduction:

1. In today’s society there is problems with morality, spirituality, roles, and respect for authority. The problems we are facing in America stem from the family. If we strengthen the family in these areas, then our society in due time will heal itself.

2. The roles of the family in America have been transparent as of the last few years and possibly decades. In this lesson I intend to try to define the role of the marriage for a Christian Husband… In this lesson I am going to speak on the role of the husband, father, or man. I am indebted to Leroy Brownlow and will be using his material for my foundation of this series and this lesson.

3. The roles of fathers and dad are extremely important in a family. The dads are the ones who God expects to be the authority, to love their wives and children, to take care of their families, and make the living. The husband is the man and is considered by God to be head of the household.

I. Head of the Household

A. Everything has a head or source

1. The body of any human has a head.

a. The head is the central part of the body.

b. The body cannot be sustained without the head nor the head without the body

c. The head is the authority in that it tells the rest what to do.

d. No institution can survive without a head: Can you imagine going to work and there be no one to work under. We would never get anything accomplished.

2. The head of America is the government

3. The head of the government is the president

4. The head of a school is the principal

5. Even the rivers and streams have a head or source

B. The Head of the Church

1. Jesus is the head of the church of Christ (1 Cor 11:3; Eph 1:22, 4:15, 5:23; Col 1:18, 2:10-19)

2. Jesus has the all authority concerning the Church. (Eph 1:22)

3. He has first place or the preeminence i.e. the highest rank (Col 1:18)

4. Through the head all the body is supplied and knit together (Col 2:19)

C. The Head of man

1. Christ is the head of man (1 Cor 11:3; Eph 5:23)

2. God is also the head of Christ (1 Cor 11:3)

D. The head of woman

1. The man is the head of the woman (Eph 5:23)

2. This is part of the punishment God gave the women due to the sin in the garden (Gen 3:16)

3. It was a threefold punishment: 1. The man was to have rule over her, 2. She was to have her husband as her desire, 3. To have pain in child birth

4. It should be said that the woman was not taken out of the man’s head to have authority over him, or taken from his feet that he may trample her under him, but from his side that they may rule together.

5. The problem occurs in a household when the two parties do not agree as to the end action or result. So the man has the final say so in the matters regarding the home.

6. The man is not a miser, or a tyrant but is like the president of the U.S.A. He has the final veto ability or the final say so.

II. Love the family

A. Love the wife

1. Love your wife as Christ loved you (Eph 5:25)

a. That is a tough call, what was there that Jesus was not willing to do for you and I?

b. Jesus did not seek to be the ruler over everybody, even though he was.

c. Jesus looked out for the best interest of those whom he was around.

d. Jesus was more concerned for people and their souls than he was there physical health.

e. Jesus put his neck out on the line for you and I, in other words he loved us so much that he was willing to be judged by hypocrites, to be called a sinner when he was not, to be mocked in a mocked trial, to suffer humiliation, to suffer a scourging, mocking of his true position and nature, to have nails driven in his hands and feet, he was crucified, and he bore our punishment for our sins.

f. In other words, Jesus loved us in every way and we also need to initiate, imitate, and involve ourselves in that kind of love in our relationships with our wives.

2. Love our wife and be not bitter towards them (Col 3:19)

a. Not to be bitter towards our wives is to say do not irritate them.

b. Immature people irritate others; as with a little brother that irritates his siblings.

c. Immature people try to provoke attention or love in the wrong ways, they try to tease or make their companion into doing their will.

d. Those who love their wives, when they ask something from their wives will receive it.

e. They receive it because of the love we as men have shown them our wives. This is similar to Jesus, “We love him because he first loved us” 1 John 4:19

f. If we provoke our wives into doing our will then they will indeed be bitter. The best way is to love them as yourself. I use this phrase in evangelism: “People do not care what you know until they see that you care”. The wife that never experiences selfless love from their husband will soon wonder why she ever married him.

3. Love the greatest gift (1 Cor 13:4-7)

a. It has been said that for love a man will do anything. In songs we hear of men that will swim the sea, climb the highest mountain; the idea is that if we love something nothing we can do is to great. The same can be said of the woman, that she also will do anything for love.

b. Love does not seek its own: Each party has to be seeking after love. A lot of times it is about compromise and not my way. We each give a little and we each take a little.

B. Love the children

1. Bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Eph 6:4)

a. Nurture – The training of a child, including instruction.

b. Admonition – A putting in mind. As in putting God’s instruction into their minds.

2. The training of a child

a. Example- Often times children will walk were their fathers or parents have walked

b. Putting to practice what we preach or teach. The phrase “if you talk the talk then you got to walk the walk” is of great significance when making the instruction real and practical to a child.

c. The phrase, “do what as I say and not as I do” will never work in enforcing a truth that you have taught or described to them. The children will do as you do.

d. Training involves more than just instruction but making practical application.

e. It involves more than just how to get to Heaven but is a whole and complete instruction that prepares the children for their adult lives. The object of parenting is to work yourself out of a job.

3. Provoke not the children unto anger lest they be discouraged (Col 3:21)

a. Dads are not to be people that hand out heavy burdens of work and toil.

b. Dads are not to load down the children with more than is necessary. A child is a child.

c. If our Christian dad makes our life miserable by causing unnecessary grief then any child will be discouraged from the faith. In other words the dad is not to ask something unreasonable from the children. He is the head of the house but he cannot ask something unreasonable from either the mom or the children.

d. Dads are most of the time how we picture God. If our dad was loving then we see God as loving, if our dad was a policeman then we see God as a policeman, and if our dad was always busy, then we see God as some important Being that is to busy to handle our mediocre problems here on earth.

e. We are to encourage the children; we are the closest person they will see to God until they get old enough to read and understand, or until they get to Heaven.

III. Making the living

A. We need to provide for our own (1 Tim 5:8)

1. Who is our own?

a. Those who would be considered under our care.

b. Relatives that depend on us for health, food, and any other support.

c. In most cases, it would involve those who are living under your roof or in your household.

d. In some cases, our widow relatives, would need our assistance and care. Because of this necessity and our relationship to them this responsibility would be ours to fulfill.

2. What kind of provisions should be provided?

a. Certainly the necessities of life (food, water, clothes, etc)

b. Foresight or thinking ahead: We know that if our wife is pregnant then we will have two mouths to feed or if our moms are getting feeble they will need extra attention. So we can plan ahead to meet those upcoming needs. “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.”

c. God thinks ahead for us, he knows that the population of the world is going to be and provides us with animals, plants, and water for everyone to have. He also sees the needs of our upcoming spiritual struggles and can prepare us for those battles.

d. All provisions should be relevant and needed.

B. Neglect is denial of the Christian religion

1. Denied the faith

a. The person who through neglect by way of drunkenness, laziness, drugs, fails to provide for those in his family is in a serious boat headed for a waterfall of destruction.

b. Peter denied the faith in a verbal way

c. The Christian can deny the faith by neglecting to fulfill his roles in life.

d. “Faith without works is dead” James 2:17

e. We may go to church and be active in looking religious but if we are not providing for our own families we are denying the faith of Jesus Christ

2. Worst than an infidel

a. An infidel is a person who does not believe in Jesus.

b. Most people who are not believers in God practice the principles of providing for their own.

c. The Christian is called to higher way of life so that he is to exceed the virtues of those who have no faith at all.

Conclusion:

1. The man is not better than the woman or the children. The man is given a responsibility to God to fulfill. Each person in a family have certain roles to fulfill for it to function in the way God planned and ordained. The woman has her role to fill; the children have their roles to fill, and the man his.

2. The man is to be the head of the household. A job that has no boss will become a place of neglect; a government that has not authority will not last. God’s plan involves a person of authority in all things. In the family that authority is indeed the man.

3. The man is to love his wife and his children. The man is not to be a tyrant barking out orders to be obeyed but is to lovingly lead the family into a closer relationship with God. A wife and children will do anything within reason when they know the man of the house is asking them to do something.

4. The man is to provide for his own kindred. He is to be the one who is responsible to take care of those placed in or under his care. This would involve widows, children, moms, dads, wives, etc. Those to whom he considers his own.

5. The man is not to ask anything unreasonable of his wife or his children. He is to respect them, he is to love them as Jesus loves us, and Jesus was willing to give His life for all. The ideal relationship between a husband and wife should imitate or reflect the relationship of Jesus and His church. It is a relationship of love, unity, closeness, and oneness.

Father help us to be faithful to the role we have been called into so we can know the truth when revealed and do right by You…In Jesus of Nazareth’s name amen.

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